by How Losing My Girlfriend to A Woman Affected Me – Uzor Arukwe.
For many people, infidelity is the biggest betrayal in a relationship and people dread another person coming to steal their significant other.
For men in relationships with women, there are so many thoughts that cross the mind on what would happen if another man tried to steal their girl, but many don’t think about what they’d do or how they would react if another woman is the one who tries to steal their girlfriend. What would you do in that situation? Because Nollywood actor Uzor Arukwe was in that exact situation, and is opening up now about how he reacted to it, and how it affected him. Here is what Uzor Arukwe had to say.
During an interview, Uzor narrated how a woman stole his girlfriend saying:
UZOR ARUKWE: We were dating and she fell in love with another woman. I could see what the girl was doing to her and she was telling me ‘Babe, are you seeing what this girl is doing?’ and I was like ‘Yeah’. Then my girl goes to the loo. The girl follows my babe and my girl comes out and she rushes back and she was like ‘This girl tried to kiss me in the bathroom” and I was like, ‘Did you kiss her back?’ and she was like ‘No!’ But I could tell it was a new experience for her. It was fresh.
The girl came back, she was feminine. She wasn’t really a stud. She was a woman and she had done this too many times and she knew that that girl was going to fall for her because she came back and she looked at me dead in the eye and she was like ‘Hi, what’s up? Can I get a drink?” She was very confident. She wasn’t a guy and so I wasn’t going to ask her what she was doing with my girl. I just thought it was nonsense and that this was going to die on arrival.
Two weeks down the line, I saw two of them talking more and more on the phone, giggling. The next thing I heard was I am going to spend the weekend with this girl and I am like, ‘what about me? She was like she had been with me since and that she was like she just wanted to go and spend a harmless holiday with this girl. And that was it.
Speaking on what he did, how he reacted, and how it affected him, Uzor Arukwe said:
UZOR ARUKWE: I felt very … if it was a guy, we fit throw blow … I would hardly fight for a woman unless it’s worth it but I mean if it was a guy, I would have accosted him and said that’s my girl, what are you doing with my girl? What am I going to tell her? I would go and tell a girl to leave my woman alone? I didn’t know how to go about it. For the longest time, I couldn’t talk to girls because If I saw a girl, I would assume that they were dating. I just didn’t like them. I was weary of them because it hit home. It hit my core.
What do you think about what happened to Uzor, and how do you think you’d react in a similar situation? Let me know your thoughts by leaving a comment either below or on my Jide Okonjo Facebook post.
