by Nigerian media personality and perfumer Toke Makinwa is sharing 5 ways to know if a man hates you. In the spirit of the Valentines season and to celebrate a new perfume she has just released, Toke Makinwa decided to list 5 ways to know a man hates you. Here are the 5 things she said.
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Listing out the 5 ways to know that a man doesn’t like you, Toke Makinwa said:
TOKE MAKINWA: I will be sharing with you five signs that a man hates you. A lot of us find ourselves in relationships where we’re always wondering, “Does this person actually like me?” I’m here to let you know. It’s Valentine’s period. Ladies, if you’re wondering about the relationship you’re in, I’m here to break it down for you.
If you guys have been dating for a while and you do not know where you’re going, you’re going nowhere. That man hates you.
If you find yourself constantly having to dim your light, if you share your dreams and he easily dismisses them, that man definitely hates you.
If he tells you things like, “I’m not into Valentine’s Day,” that man hates you. That man hates you.
If he always feigns being busy—listen, if he wanted to, he would. If he didn’t want to, he’d make excuses. Nobody is that busy for anybody, honestly. If you doubt me, remember when you guys first met. And now, all of a sudden, he’s busy? That man hates you.
If you have to remind him about the littlest things that mean a lot to you—like your birthday, your anniversary, the day your dog died, or an important appointment—if you have to constantly remind that guy about you, baby, honestly, men are not that complex, right? Men are easy. They are either interested, or they are not. They either like you, or they don’t.
If you have to start lying to yourself, take it from me—they hate you.
We’re blessed with intuition, ladies. So many bad things happen to us because we ignore that inner voice constantly warning us when we’re in situations that are bad for us. I believe that God hid that thing called intuition in women mostly because it just feels like we are rock stars. And when a woman ignores that intuition, she pays dearly for it.
They hate you.
