by A Sweden-based East African lady, Maureen Bahema, has sparked discussions online with her recent remarks on submission in relationships.
Taking to the popular microblogging platform, X, on Sunday, March 16, advised women who are unwilling to submit to their partners before marriage to step aside for those who are.
She argued that submission is not something that automatically develops after marriage but rather begins during the dating phase.
“Ladies, if you can’t submit to a man in a relationship, you won’t submit to him in marriage. A ring on your finger won’t suddenly bring a spirit of submission the day after your wedding. Submission doesn’t happen overnight. It begins in a relationship. You either step up or step aside for the woman who will!!” she wrote.
Netizens Reactions…
Blessed said: “Bitter truth to the rotten feminist.”
TheMan commented: “Dem don dey cry😂😂😂😂😂. They hate the word submit, even the ones claiming to be submissive wives, it’s because, the man still has some money, make him jam hard time first, you will see them true color.
Grief Counsellor said: “All marriage advise is for the women. Nobody tells the men to treat their wives well so their prayers would be unhindered.”
@HilaryMashava said: “Facts only 👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾.”
@Timeless414 reacted: “Submission should be both ways, you both needs to submit your minds and bodies to each other but there has to be a captain piloting the affairs of the family, which is the man and that should never be up for debate.
@Idkjeniii added: “A healthy relationship is built on mutual respect, trust, and understanding, not just submission.
@Madebodefi commented: “I can imagine how some women feel like strangl*ng you right now 😂😂😂.”
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